Leslie A. Davidson
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An unstintingly honest and surprisingly humorous memoir that charts a couple’s parallel diagnoses of Parkinson’s and Lewy body dementia.

In 2011, Leslie Davidson and her husband Lincoln Ford were enjoying retired life to the fullest as ardent outdoor enthusiasts, energetic travellers, and soon-to-be grandparents. But when Lincoln’s confusion became a concern and Leslie began to experience a hesitant leg and uncontrollable tremors in one arm, a devastating double diagnosis completely changed their life.

In this personal and unstintingly honest memoir, Leslie recounts the years that follow the diagnoses—her Parkinson’s and Lincoln’s Lewy body dementia—charting physical changes, mastering medications (and sometimes flubbing it), the logistical puzzles of caregiving, and the steady support of their close-knit community in the small town of Grand Forks in south central British Columbia.

She describes her struggle to maintain perspective while questioning what having perspective even means, and the work of being an advocate while needing an advocate. And she explains how, amid all the challenges and tears, shared laughter remained all-important to their survival, especially in times when Lincoln saw her as an imposter. She shares powerful lessons in love, courage, and grace from the man who had always led the way and who, despite the ravages of his illness, in many ways, still did.

At once poignant and unflinchingly frank Dancing in Small Spaces is the story of a long and adventurous marriage, of deep gratitude, and, ultimately, of writing one’s way toward understanding and acceptance.

 

Praise for Dancing In Small Places

…Leslie Davidson writes painfully and exquisitely, expressing the rawness of her loss in prose that is nothing short of breathtaking. This book travels her path along with her husband, Lincoln Ford, as they learn almost simultaneously that they are both struck by terrifying incurable diseases: he is sentenced to wandering his last years through the throes of dementia, while she faces a future with Parkinson's. Such are life's cruelties.

But while I was expecting a weepy travelogue down the backroads of grief and suffering, I was actually met with a love story full of courage and grace, both "characters" meeting their fates head-on - after all, what other choice is there? Surrounded by amazing friends and a loving family, they are able to call their own shots as best they can. Leslie's resilience throughout, providing primary care for her stricken husband, is not posted on a giant flag, waving in the breeze for all to see, but instead is the calm and constant heartbeat of the book. She writes with pain and humor in describing the many efforts she led to keep Lincoln feeling safe, loved, and as grounded as can be, accepting the disease and its unpleasant by-products with a resolve that might just force a smile and sob out of you at the same time….

-Doc, Goodreads (Read the full review here)



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